Winning

Read an article on ChristianityToday: "Lessons from a Punker Ph.D."
Our world is about winning. It conveys messages to conquer, to take over, to control, and refers those otherwise as weak and cowardice.
In here, we lust instead of love, we debate rather than discuss and accuse instead of advice. We strive to win "short-sighted" battles - winning battles but losing the war.
It depends on how far we can perceive the war. Those who look into eternity affort to lose the moments and those who look beyond self dare to be defeated in the "self-centered" battles.
This is courage. An honor beared by people with broad capacity in their minds and hearts.